Wingspread Journal

OUR KIDS AND WHAT YOU CAN DO TO HELP
Wingspread Journal, Winter 1996

CHILDREN AND YOUTH
REFLECTIONS

Richard Kinch, Senior Program Officer
The Johnson Foundation

"What can I do to help?"

The Johnson Foundation, like other philanthropic organizations, has asked this question: What can we do with our resources to improve the lives of our children and youth? Our answer is that we wish to "support efforts to encourage and support significantly more productive engagement of adults in the lives of children and youth."

It will help if we are prepared to look at our kids-all kids-not as problems to be fixed but as promises to be fulfilled. This is one of the messages of the "Random Acts of Asset Building" article on page 7: we might better base our thinking and our actions on assets rather than deficits.

Elsewhere in this issue of the Wingspread Journal, the words of Urie Bronfenbrenner explain why without adult engagement other youth-directed efforts will have limited success.

It may be difficult, however, to persuade adults-including parents-to become more engaged in the lives of young people. Nevertheless, probably nothing else has a chance of prevailing against the injunction to have rather than be, the alluring and irresistible materialism in which we are immersed. The engagement of even dedicated parents cannot prosper in a culture that is indifferent to children, let alone in one that is hostile or exploitative, as described by John Silber on page 11.

But if you want to do something for kids, there is a great deal that lies between the specificity of personal commitment and the huge and intractable menace of contemporary culture. There are the "mediating structures" that help the young and their families to negotiate the outside world: neighborhoods, voluntary associations, churches, schools. There are also the numerous social programs that should be accessible resources to those who need them, which means almost all of us, at one time or another.

This issue of the Wingspread Journal intends to describe some of those. Family volunteering and lifelong service programs contain some core ideas. Anne Cohn Donnelly, on page 21, reports on initiatives that are preventive, non-stigmatizing, based on knowledge, and supported by both the public and private sectors.

But even programs designed by angels and funded by the national debt will not by themselves save many of our kids. They are necessary but not sufficient.

The question remains: "What can I do to help?"

During the next few years, The Johnson Foundation seeks to encourage the ideas that will provide some of the answers to that question. Perhaps we will need to think in terms of a radical culture shift, broadly recreating a social environment that is friendly to children and their parents (as today's environment is not). We may need to examine our educational and social service programs and insist that they act as though their chief purpose is to protect and nurture and instruct.

The Foundation will also continue to encourage collaboration-among the providers of social services, agencies, and funders, of course-but also across sectors. We need alliances that include business, law enforcement, nursing and public health, and the churches, especially the black churches, which have a long and honorable history of social action.

We should also remember to consult our young people, regularly and often. And we must find things for kids to do that count, that have value for others. It is a calamity not to learn while young to care for others.

In a recent editorial, Washington Post columnist William Raspberry called for a serious, national conversation on how we can best bring children to responsible adulthood. "We need to work out new arrangements for men and women, for families and for communities-arrangements that make it possible once again to put children where they belong: at the center." To do that, we may need to shift our culture in the direction of re-engaging adults in the lives of children and youth. At The Johnson Foundation, we'd like to help make that happen.